The prepster nerd

femininefreak:

Sex Education in American Public Schools

You know I think it’s a bad thing that my state is on every map shown

fandomodyssey:

georgiasheeran:

real-gifs:

interesting-and-useful-links:

Creative And Colorful Hair Trends To Try This Summer
Top 10 Products for Beating Acne
Flashback to the Best 90s Style Hits
What 10 Celebs Wore To Prom
Simple Life Hacks That Make Your House So Much More Awesome
Top 10 Affordable Shoes that Look Expensive
12 Reasons Fake Nails Are The Absolute Worst
Top 10 Red Lipsticks & How to Choose the Perfect Shade
Top 10 Vintage Style Icons
The Evolution of Miley Cyrus
Top 10 Craziest Shoes
Must-Try 5 Minute Hairstyles
The 10 Most Perfect Summer Styles
How to Get Perfect Naked Skin (With Makeup!)
Top 10 Perfect Summer Styles
The World’s Worst Selfie Fails
Top 10 Beauty Products You Can’t Live Without
How To Have Japanese Style
10 Brilliant Beauty Life Hacks
Helpful as F*ck Fashion Life Hacks
Top 10 Most Stylish Supermodels
The Absolute Best Pizza Ideas Ever
8 Ways To Eat Pumpkin Spice
The Best Summer Sunglasses You’ll Wish Were On Your Face
Best Mean Girls Moments and Quotes
Top 10 Coolest Jewelry Pieces
Celebs With The Strongest Selfie Game
Top 10 Best Graphic Tees
Awesome Mean Girls Inspired Fashion
Top 10 Style Icons
How to Get Ariana Grande’s Style
How To Get Cara Delevigne’s Style
10 Starbucks Secret Menu Items
18 Amazing Chemical Reaction Gifs
Things Boys Do That Girls Love (According to Tumblr)
Top 10 Online Stores
Brilliant Ads That Work With Their Surroundings
Top 10 Fashion Bloggers to Envy
15 Perfectly Recreated Childhood Photos
17 Photos That Will Make Your Stomach Drop
The 9 Greatest Understatements Of All Time
Definitive Proof That “Frozen” Is Literally The Same Movie As “The Lion King”
Maps Of Everything You Need To Know About The World
The Selfie Olympics Finalists
The Ultimate Guide On What To Pack For A Weekend Getaway

*clicks on every link and spends the rest of my night like*


Literally what I did..

“bored”
aka
avoiding schoolwork 

fandomodyssey:

georgiasheeran:

real-gifs:

interesting-and-useful-links:

Creative And Colorful Hair Trends To Try This Summer

Top 10 Products for Beating Acne

Flashback to the Best 90s Style Hits

What 10 Celebs Wore To Prom

Simple Life Hacks That Make Your House So Much More Awesome

Top 10 Affordable Shoes that Look Expensive

12 Reasons Fake Nails Are The Absolute Worst

Top 10 Red Lipsticks & How to Choose the Perfect Shade

Top 10 Vintage Style Icons

The Evolution of Miley Cyrus

Top 10 Craziest Shoes

Must-Try 5 Minute Hairstyles

The 10 Most Perfect Summer Styles

How to Get Perfect Naked Skin (With Makeup!)

Top 10 Perfect Summer Styles

The World’s Worst Selfie Fails

Top 10 Beauty Products You Can’t Live Without

How To Have Japanese Style

10 Brilliant Beauty Life Hacks

Helpful as F*ck Fashion Life Hacks

Top 10 Most Stylish Supermodels

The Absolute Best Pizza Ideas Ever

8 Ways To Eat Pumpkin Spice

The Best Summer Sunglasses You’ll Wish Were On Your Face

Best Mean Girls Moments and Quotes

Top 10 Coolest Jewelry Pieces

Celebs With The Strongest Selfie Game

Top 10 Best Graphic Tees

Awesome Mean Girls Inspired Fashion

Top 10 Style Icons

How to Get Ariana Grande’s Style

How To Get Cara Delevigne’s Style

10 Starbucks Secret Menu Items

18 Amazing Chemical Reaction Gifs

Things Boys Do That Girls Love (According to Tumblr)

Top 10 Online Stores

Brilliant Ads That Work With Their Surroundings

Top 10 Fashion Bloggers to Envy

15 Perfectly Recreated Childhood Photos

17 Photos That Will Make Your Stomach Drop

The 9 Greatest Understatements Of All Time

Definitive Proof That “Frozen” Is Literally The Same Movie As “The Lion King”

Maps Of Everything You Need To Know About The World

The Selfie Olympics Finalists

The Ultimate Guide On What To Pack For A Weekend Getaway

*clicks on every link and spends the rest of my night like*

Literally what I did..

bored

aka

avoiding schoolwork 

dont-trustyourfeelings:

pyksii:

saddeer:

I have this weird theory that some people are drawn to each other because their atoms were near each other when the universe was created and over time the same atoms keep coming back together

DID YOU JUST SCIENTIFICALLY EXPLAIN SOUL MATES?!

It’s too early to be thinking about this shit





THE GUY BEING A SPIDER IN THE BACK THOUGH


This is at least the third time I’ve reblogged this and I’m not sorry


THE GUY BEING A SPIDER IN THE BACK THOUGH

This is at least the third time I’ve reblogged this and I’m not sorry

thisgingersnapsback:

let’s see tumblr get as excited about this as they did the totally “inclusive” white ~feminine~ rendition
$20 says nope 

thisgingersnapsback:

let’s see tumblr get as excited about this as they did the totally “inclusive” white ~feminine~ rendition

$20 says nope 

A lot of deaths feel sad. Philip Seymour Hoffman’s feels like a robbery.
James Poniewozik (x)

hatinngthis:

If you’ve been:

        - physically abused

        - verbally abused

        - depressed

        - unbelievably stressed

        - had your heart broken

       - dealing/dealt with your parents separating

       - hiding stuff from friends/family cause you’re scared of being judged

       - judged for something you can’t help

       - self harmed

….Then reblog this to show people what reality is like for you.

Imagination

There is a boundary to men’s passions when they act from feelings; but none when they are under the influence of imagination.
  Edmund Burke

Rape culture is when I was six, and
my brother punched my two front teeth out.
Instead of reprimanding him, my mother
said “Stefanie, what did you do to provoke him?”
When my only defense was my
mother whispering in my ear, “Honey, ignore him.
Don’t rile him up. He just wants a reaction.”
As if it was my sole purpose, the reason
six-year-old me existed,
was to not rile up my brother.
It’s starts when we’re six, and ends
when we grow up assuming the natural state of a man
is a predator, and I must walk on eggshells, as to
not “rile him up.” Right, mom?

Rape culture is when through casual dinner conversation,
my father says that women who get raped are asking for it.
He says, “I see them on the streets of New York City,
with their short skirts and heavy makeup. Asking for it.”
When I used to be my father’s hero but
will he think I was asking for it? (will he think)
Will he think I deserved it?
Will he hold me accountable or will he hold me,
even though the touch of a man - especially my father’s -
burns as if I were holding the sun in the palm of my hand.

Rape culture is you were so ashamed, you thought it would
be easier for your parents to find you dead,
than to say, “Hey mom and dad,”
It wasn’t my fault. I didn’t ask for it.
I never asked for this attention, I never asked
to be a target, to be weak because I was born with
two X chromosomes, to walk in fear, to always look behind me,
in front of me, next to me, I never asked to be the prey.
I never wanted to spend my life being something
someone feasts upon, a meal for the eternally starved.
I do not want to hear about the way I taste anymore.
I will not let you eat me alive.

Rape culture is I shouldn’t defend my friend when
an overaggressive frat boy has his hand on her ass,
because standing up for her body “makes me a target.”
Women are afraid to speak up, because
they fear their own lives - but I’d rather take the hit
than live in a culture of silence.
I am told that I will always be the victim, pre-determined
by the DNA in my weaker, softer body.
I have birthing hips, not a fighter’s stance.
I am genetically pre-dispositioned to lose every time.

Rape culture is he was probably abused as a child.
When he even has some form of a justification
and all I have are the things that provoked him,
and the scars from his touch are woven of the darkest
and toughest strings, underneath the layer of my skin.
Rape culture leaves me finding pieces of him left inside of me.
A bone of his elbow. The cap of his knee.
There is something so daunting in the way that I know it will take
me years to methodically extract him from my body.
And that twinge I will get sometimes in my arm fifteen years later?
Proof of the past.
Like a tattoo I didn’t ask for.
Somehow I am permanently inked.

Rape culture is you can’t wear that outfit anymore
without feeling dirty, without feeling like
you somehow earned it.
You will feel like you are walking on knives,
every time you wear the shoes
you smashed his nose in with.
Imaginary blood on the bottom of your heels,
thinking, maybe this will heal me.
Those shoes are your freedom,
But the remains of a life long fight.
You will always carry your heart,
your passion, your absolute will to live,
but also the shame and the guilt and the pain.
I saved myself but I still feel like I’m walking on knives.

Rape culture is “Stefanie, you weren’t really raped, you were
one of the lucky ones.”
Because my body wasn’t penetrated by a penis,
but fingers instead, that I should feel lucky.
I should get on my hands and knees and say, thank you.
Thank you for being so kind.
Rape culture is “things could have been worse.”
“It’s been a month, Stefanie. Get out of bed.”
“You’ll have to get over this eventually.”
“Don’t let it ruin your life.”
Rape culture is he told you that after he touched you,
no one would ever want you again.
And you believed him.

Rape culture is telling your daughters not to get raped,
instead of teaching your sons how to treat all women.
That sex is not a right. You are not entitled to this.
The worst possible thing you can call a woman is a
slut, a whore, a bitch.
The worst possible thing you can call a man is a
bitch, a pussy, a girl.
The worst thing you can call a girl is a girl.
The worst thing you can call a guy is a girl.
Being a woman is the ultimate rejection,
the ultimate dismissal of strength and power, the
absolute insult.
When I have a daughter,
I will tell her that she is not
an insult.

When I have a daughter, she will know how to fight.
I will look at her like the sun when she comes home
with anger in her fists.
Because we are human beings and we do not
always have to take what we are given.
They all tell her not to fight fire with fire,
but that is only because they are afraid of her flames.
I will teach her the value of the word “no” so that
when she hears it, she will not question it.
My daughter,
Don’t you dare apologize for the fierce love
you have for yourself
and the lengths you go to preserve it.

My daughter,
I am alive because of the fierce love I have
for myself, and because my father taught me
to protect that.
He taught me that sometimes, I have to do
my own bit of saving, pick myself off the
ground and wipe the dirt off my face,
because at the end of the day,
there is only me.
I am alive because my mother taught me
to love myself.
She taught me that I am an enigma - a
mystery, a paradox, an unfinished masterpiece and
I must love myself enough to see how I turn out.
I am alive because even beaten, voiceless, and back
against the wall, I knew there was an ounce of me
worth fighting for.
And for that, I thank my parents.

Instead of teaching my daughter to cover herself up,
I will show her how to be exposed.
Because no is not “convince me”.
No is not “I want it”.
You call me,
“Little lady, pretty girl, beautiful woman.”
But I am not any of these things for you.
I am exploding light,
my daughter will be exploding light,
and you,
better cover your eyes.

slk

Rape Culture (Cover Your Eyes)